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Tired of being sad and lonely

jstcyn
jstcyn
Been near 3 months, feels like forever since I've seen him. Not sure the right way to say this but I lie here lonely why they lay together. It sets me up inside!!! Really hurting tonight!!!
jstcyn
jstcyn
Damn it!! Eats me up inside!!!!
kbbcoop77
kbbcoop77
Do you have a gym membership? If not I would highly recommend it. Doing some sweat inducing cardio or whatever floats your boat helps tremendously and gets you in better shape which also makes you feel better. Laying at home and dwelling on your ex is understandable and I've been there but I've also learned it's just not productive and makes you feel worse. You have to only think of yourself now. 3 months is extremely early in the process. It does get better!
sja
sja
^^agreed^^
murphytoronto
murphytoronto
I am sorry for all your pain

It is torturous
I know
and so unfair

Hang in there ....bitch to your friends/family

HUGS to you

At such an early and raw stage....your pain is unreal....ugh

Please join a breakups divorce group

You know so many of us are going exactly the same as you

Ride the waves and get out there and meet new people

It will get better
ALD13072
ALD13072
As always I agree with Coop.

Do you have any hobbies?
How about volunteering?
Join a DivorceCare group?
Check our MeetUps in your area?

Keep yourself busy. Stop obsessing about them (trust me... They don't spend a second thinking about you). Keep moving forward and learn how to love yourself.

Hugs to you!
murphytoronto
murphytoronto
It is hard to stop obsessing when your whole life has been devastated

finding a new vision takes time and cannot be clear when you are in the throws of such turmoil

Gradually you will re engage with life and map a new one for yourself

Our hearts take years to heal
jstcyn
jstcyn
First thanks everyone. Your advice and words of encouragements are appreciated .
No I don't have a gym membership but thinking about it.
No Hobbies. I am pretty boring. I guess that might be part of why my stbx decided to leave. I know pity pot but.... I can't help but think of him all the time. I tell myself not to go there but I normally do....