Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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Chatoyant 04/15/2015

And I don't know why...it doesn't fit my situation EXACTLY but I'm still finding it helpful:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg-ivWxy5KE

Chatoyant 04/15/2015

Thinking about this a bit more...I think the tune sums up the sadness, the regret and yet a certain resolution to get up and go on in spite of it. I don't relate to all the lyrics, it's more the feel of it, that I am going to try to sail on, I'm going to try to find something good in my future.

Best wishes and lots of hugs to those of us who are feeling lonely tonight.

Chatoyant 04/15/2015

And here's another one from the Commodores that is helping me tonight:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7XcTyEKSnYg

kbbcoop77 04/15/2015

I've had that happen recently, Gotye's "Somebody That I Used to Know" and I've found it very therapeutic, like my mantra now. That's how I'm viewing my ex...I think some songs can be real helpful.

Chatoyant 04/15/2015

"I want to be free to know the things I do are right
I want to be free to be me"

Instead of judging myself by someone else's standards, especially my ex - instead of seeing myself as wanting somehow - to see myself as just fine and ready to be ME again.

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