Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
He has been my everything for 5 years and we share a child I am struggling with wanting that family feeling back which I love. The problem with that is he doesn't treat me good or appreciate how I have carried this. Family when he has been unemployed several times. My overall heart knows he won't live up to the loving responsible man that I would like and it hurts because I put in so much energy and time.
Believe me when I tell you, you can't change anyone.
You have your child like I have my sons. The pain will subside.
Be strong!
I found there are a ton of people with the same stories. It's like a plague. You will be astounded how a lot of them are so similar.
So I found comfort in knowing I was not alone. I read the really long threads and saw how others were able to move forward. It happens very slowly but it happens. I'm only a few months in and I am already different than I was.
I also get on my knees and pray every day. I ask God to forgive me and to look out for my sons. That helps me start every day.
I also use this site to journal my feelings. It sounds stupid but it helps.
Last piece of advice. Don't be afraid to lock yourself in the closet and cry. I'm a man and I know that sounds weak. But it's good to just get it out. Haven't done that in a few weeks and don't feel the need to anymore
Good luck