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thinking about going back

satinecat
satinecat
I know it doesn't make sense, but I can't help wanting to go back. When I think about what I want from life, I want the future we were planning. We had so many things together--common interests, likes, foods, he took good care of me in many ways. I don't know what to do. :-(
bigguy3
bigguy3
He's an ex for a reason .... remember that.

Going back to an ex is like going to a garage sale and buying back your old crap you've been trying to get rid of .... just doesn't make sense.
sandysan5743
sandysan5743
Is it possible to go back? What do you mean by that? If it's not possible, i.e. you're already divorced, he doesn't want you, then you need to move on. You may need to make a new future.
KourtneyHart
KourtneyHart
Just like bigguy3 said: "hes an ex for a reason".. Try not to look back on the good things without reminding yourself why you broke up in the first place.. Things couldnt have been that great, or you wouldnt have split.