Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years that I just broke up with hated when I wore bright red lipstick in the morning.
So I'm wearing bright red MAC Viva glam this am when he drops off my packages before work.
My boyfriend hated that I would stay up all night routinely to write and make art.
Now that we're broken up I'm letting my sleep cycle fall where it may, with late nights and sleepy days aplenty.
What are things that your ex or soon to be ex didn't like you doing that you are doing now that you are out from under their thumb? Anything and everything.
I hope this post will be a little bit cathartic for all of you out there who are suffering and remind you that now that you're free, you make the rules.
So I'm wearing bright red MAC Viva glam this am when he drops off my packages before work.
My boyfriend hated that I would stay up all night routinely to write and make art.
Now that we're broken up I'm letting my sleep cycle fall where it may, with late nights and sleepy days aplenty.
What are things that your ex or soon to be ex didn't like you doing that you are doing now that you are out from under their thumb? Anything and everything.
I hope this post will be a little bit cathartic for all of you out there who are suffering and remind you that now that you're free, you make the rules.
I don't want to think of me relative to her, but it is nice doing stuff now not wishing she would be there also enjoying it.
I have a few tops from Old Navy that he said were "too fancy" (old navy, fancy, really???) that I've brought back into my wardrobe rotation.
He HATES all vegetables, I always had some around, but again, he would rant and rave about how disgusting he thinks they are even to look at. Now my fridge is always stocked with tons of fruits and veggies.
Now's the time to do whatever it is that makes you feel happy, that makes you feel like YOU, or that you've ever wanted to try!
I'm slouching, wearing red lipstick, staying up all night and smoking as much weed as I want inside without brushing my teeth afterwards as he used to insist I do.
I even wrote a poem about all the things I no longer had to do since we broke up. It was a long list. I realized how much free-er i am now.
Something to think about as we process these breakups, as hard as they are.
to say i can't sing is an understatement
i like music particularly when i'm happy
now that the spider has chosen infidelity and divorce
the time without has given me the chance to see that she was at her happiest when she was manipulating my happiness