Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Take it easy, let it happen in it's own time.....he will get what is coming to him in time, and when it happens you can sit back and smile....in the mean time, don't let it bother you, I know easier said than done.....
I too thought I had moved past this phase. Oh for the final stage of divorce... acceptance!
With my stbx, he is Mr. Wonderful to anyone and everyone he comes in contact with. Too bad he is a different person with his family.
I have stopped wishing for a lightning bolt to strike him down, I have moved on and grown so apart from him that what he does and says anymore, doesn't matter to me in the slightest. It gives me satisfaction I might add, that I have moved on from him, it clearly pisses him off!! I am done living for him.......I'm living for me from now on..in the end, every dog has his day!
((((((hugs)))))) coming your way for strength and support!!
Maybe, the bad people dont get what is coming to them, but just go on living in the same miserable state, and that is their karma.
Meanwhile, the nice people, have good things happen to them, and that is the karma for the bad people in their lives. Makes sense if you think about it!
So, in a way, me moving on and getting better at my life and doing so well IS his bad karma and he will never change and will always be the same.
Off to work. Have a wonderful day my friends!
I finally decided that even if mine becomes more successful once this divorce is final....I really don't care.If mine thinks that money will make him happy....God bless him cuz I know differently.His attitude will make him a bitter,sad,lonely old man and that's good enough for me(he doesn't have any "real" friends)
I am finally happy and living the life I always wanted :)