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only2bestrong 04/13/2011

When I talked to the OW she kept going on and on about how beautiful she is. She has long blonde hair big boob's and she can have any man she wanted. Do you guys think she is really all this or just really stuck on herself? She said she didn't knw how it would work with him and her anyway b/c he is mexican and PA people don't like when a white girl gets with a mexican. After finding out about me do you think she is going to give him a chance?

deleted_user 04/13/2011

What was her phone # ? lol It dont sound like she is going to.

deleted_user 04/13/2011

i can see the writing on the wall already. they won't last.

but, the problem is, when he is done screwing her, he will come back to you for, if nothing else, sex.

you don't really want this guy back, do you?

deleted_user 04/13/2011

What is " PA people "?

only2bestrong 04/13/2011

Pennsylvania. So do you guys think they are still talking? He left PA to go to NY to work this week.

deleted_user 04/13/2011

My opinion is to find someone else. I understand when you love someone but It doesn't sound like he loves you. Sorry.

only2bestrong 04/13/2011

That's the deal he tells me he loves me everyday. I am just so confused and hurt right now and really feel like I am fixing to have a nervous break down. When he gets back in town on monday I want to be strong and tell him no he can't stay with me, but where will he go.

deleted_user 04/13/2011

I'm sorry, but what kind of person gloats over themselves? She shounds like an idiot. She can't be with him b/c he's Mexican. Good luck to your H, it sounds like he picked a winner. I can tell already their affair is going to end eventually. Personally, after that convo I would feel a little better about your situation.

deleted_user 04/13/2011

Is he the only guy in OK? He is sleeping with other women. That should tell you he dont love you. If he is going to PA, NY for work how much does he really come back with? Sounds like he is doing it more to sleep around then work.

deleted_user 04/13/2011

Don't bother with what she says or he says.
Be more concerned with his actions, that will give you the answer I think.

If you do decide he can't stay with you, it's his problem where he goes.

Dave17 04/13/2011

I'm deeply confused about what is going on here.

The man cheated on you, at this point, shouldn't that be what you are focusing on, and not what her boobs look like?

I would really wonder why he keeps telling you that he loves you but is with someone else.

Is this really how you want to be treated? I certainly wouldn't want it. You are worth much more than this.

Like others have said, it's time to move on.

CMondo 04/13/2011

why are you even talking to her? Seems like he will be another woman once he and the blond break up anyway.

He tells you he loves you and there are different ways to love. The way he loves you is not what you really want, is it? He loves you but he is with other women?

It is very hard, but it is time to cut the losses here and try to move on without him. He will be hurting you for as long as you allow it.

deleted_user 04/13/2011

OK. Is this guy rich?? He better be because I don't know any beautiful worthwhile women who want a lying, cheating, POOR sack of crap.

Why are you even speaking to this woman? I'd be too busy throwing his belongings out the window and having my nails done.

patti22 04/13/2011

Cheating with a married man = an ugly ugly soul.

only2bestrong 04/13/2011

No he isn't rich but he told her that he makes good money.

deleted_user 04/13/2011

She's a foolish foolish woman because after YOU dump him; he'll be using and doing the same thing to her.

Trust what the people here have told you so in three years you'll have found someone who deserves your love while SHE unfortunately will be here crying.

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