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The Natural Scent of a Person

llmt
llmt
I was listening to my morning radio (from Philly) on the way to work this morning and have been thinking all day on this. They were talking about the "natural" scent of a man, in particular, and how it seems to excite women. I have always love the pheromone of my stbx and just love the natural scent of a man, in general. Not bathed in cologne or major BO, but the true natural skin scent. Anyone else share a thought on this? Wonder if men also dig this, as well. No, not talking about smelling of the panties, either...unless you are into that.
deleted_user
deleted_user
*trigger* *cries*
Rman
Rman
*hides panties behind back*
deleted_user
deleted_user
I agree.

*hugs Z*
llmt
llmt
Fuck Z, I am sorry...I am crying too cuz I miss that soooo much, just sooooo much.
Rman
Rman
*splashes aqua velva all over body, to end crying*
deleted_user
deleted_user
Nope, I like the smell of a clean, showered up, bathed in Eternity smell.

If men don't make themselves smelly, then they smell.
llmt
llmt
Have been looking for those panties..give em back.
Rman
Rman
*rubs pizza on body*
deleted_user
deleted_user
*hugs Z and llmt*

Quick, Rman, more aqua velva.
deleted_user
deleted_user
And more pizza, too.
Rman
Rman
*splashes it in eyes and screams*
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have thought a lot about this. I don't like colognes, and love that natural scent. I believe pheromones are a huge factor in who we with. It's something we cannot control either. I don't know...maybe i'm nuts, and i just have a thing for smells? Anyway.....i was very drawn to my ex's scent ;(
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have a video about this. (science teacher) The underlying understanding is that in order to 'like' someone, we have to like their smell. In the study, they sent men's unwashed work t-shirts to women in the study and had the women smell them and rate them. The women across the board chose men who had immune systems quite different from their own.. Biologically they would have healthier offspring.

Um... sorry... not romantic at all. I love the natural scent of a man... and if I don't, yuck. I hate cheap cologne. Love the smell of the outdoors on someone. And wood smoke.
deleted_user
deleted_user
A while ago I realized how important smell really is. I dated this amazing guy who was really good looking, tall had a good career, good family...pretty much everything i wanted but because I didn't like his natural smell, I wasn't able to move forward. Had to leave him and go back to my dumbass ex who just happened to smell great
deleted_user
deleted_user
WHICH morning radio?