Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

I was the one that handled all the bills, banking and retirement accounts. The ex wouldn't ever write a check even if I was ill. I had a copy of all six court appearances before I ever left the courthouse.
Make sure you keep your marriage license, and divorce decree in a safe place. You. Will need that if you can claim on his SS if it's larger than what you would draw on your own work history.
Simplest is with an attorney or in a safe deposit box. Scan everything to a PDF file, etc.
In today's world, the actual divorce decree, marriage license, real estate transactions, tax records, retirement and 401K accounts, all are known official records that cannot be tampered with after the fact.
Of course, EVERYTHING can be forged or presented as real by a con artist. However, relying on the official records clears that up.
We each had equal access to all records
And he to the house when i was working.
I was the bookkeeper but i hid nothing
Except my personal emails and my phone
calls Between my lawyer and myself. Every
Thing else was in plain sight. I did code
lock my ipad When it was left behind.
Yours is much more complicated and he
Is being an A**wipe. I am very glad we Did
not to live together, everything We had was
joint so no secrets, even his Lawyers stuff
All came to the house.
He did go around inventoring things in
the House for the split up. I took what i
Wanted and left the house intact so That
was a waste of time. HUGS
A passive aggressive stbx.
In many ways it was a blessing, my ex
wanted Out so bad so he did not stall
On things.
I still had plenty of scuffles and PA
Behaviors and nastiness. We had to
Re value two assets because of his
game Playing. My lawyer played hard
Ball right back at him which he did not
Expect. HUGS