You can share all of that stuff, you just can't do it on the phone ...

I still scan and send anything like report cards, I text about the scores of games etc..

I just slowly had to stop sending everything I would have in the past ...and I had to realize that even when he didn't respond so what, I had shared our kids moments with him ...

it is reciprocated of course , he doesn't send a text on the weekend he has the kids to let me know whether they won or lost but since its only two days I can live with it ...

((((HUGS))))

I lost my best friend too :(

I felt the exact same way for a while.. and still have fleeting feelings/thoughts.. but on reflection altho I still love him I no longer like him and would not choose him to be a friend of mine

getting out and meeting new people is so important I think.. just not sure how to do that myself

good luck x

I know exactly how you feel....I want to share everything that happened in my day w/ him....he is the first person I want to talk to when I wake up and the last person I want to talk to at the end of my day.....I am not even away from him yet and I feel exactly the same...I am not just losing my husband (of 19 yrs) , the father of my kids, but my very best friend....

Hugs to you

Its been six months for me, and I still feel like I am missing my best friends ...

I go to pick up the phone at least once a day to tell him something...

Last week if was dix months since he moved out, and that morning when I woke up and was upset, who did I pick up the phone to call, the man who broke my heart ...

I am however not wanting to contact nearly as much as before and I know that I can tell my best friend, or I just share it with the kids

Thank you everyone.
Not that I wish this on anyone, but it is somehow comforting to know that I am not alone in the world.

I know exactly what you mean. Whenever something good or bad happens I want to reach for the phone and call him then I realize he doesnt want to hear from me. Its hard! Reach out to us here, or a family member or friend.

your not alone ,its been two weeks since his been gone and i have this longing to pick up the phone and tell him all the good and bad about my day.i want to tell him everything its hard realizing he doesn't want to hear it and wouldn't answer. I feel like my best friend is gone. Hang in there

Come here and share your great news; your triumphs; your bad days and invest in a journal...writing was my saving grace; and get on the internet and find local support groups and start going on out.

Yoga and african dance classes helped me a lot.