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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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zaac1986 02/25/2017

I don't even know how to start this but well, my husband told me last tuesday he's bisexual. I dont know how to handle this situation. I left home and haven't seen him since then.

Anyone here already went through the same situation?

I need help. Seriously.

lost-and-alone 02/26/2017

it shouldnt matter if hes bi or not. you loved him before you knew so why should that change anything? his sexuality does not make up who he is, he is still the same person you vowed to spend your life with

jojored 02/26/2017

One question you need an honest answer to is = is he going to act on this. If he says no, and you trust him, then that's something you'll need to wrap your head around if you want to stay with him. If he instead says he wants to experience a relationship with other men, then that's your ticket out the front door.

mirandac 02/26/2017

I can not imagine coming out and not having ideas
On how they want to proceed. I think many people
fantasize. This is more than just fantasy, he is probably
interested in someone or has done something already.

I would get into therapy for yourself to talk it out
And get professional guidance. HUGS

zaac1986 02/26/2017

Thanks for the replies. It's been difficult for me to understand everything. I disappeared, I deleted my husband's phone number and he's been texting wondering what I am doing, if im ok and etc. I'm sad because it feels like I've failed as a woman. I'm very open minded but when something like this happens with us we kinda lose our senses. I'm lost, trying to understand, also thinking he's confused. He's 15 years older than me and i always been the head of everything, I always decided things for him. Maybe he was hiding it from everyone...he could've told me since the beginning, when I met him...When he moved to my country (im not american)...when we decided to get married. All the times we were together we were like just one person. I just need space and peace to put myself together and talk to him. It's been almost 1 week that I cut contact and I still need to think. Problem is that we're opening a business together and we have many things to do.. Im out of home and my mind is playing tricks on me... Like, the bed we used to share, is he sharing with a man, a woman now? Both? I'm disgusted. I'm thinking about an annulment of our marriage and I can do that because of his sexual orientation, it's in the law in my country. I just have this headache since then ans cant sleep, eat. My family is worried about the whole situation. Not easy.

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