Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am presently dealing with issues of life and if you ask me I will tell you I dont have the strength to carry on. My 4years marraige is in truobled waters. I have been keeping it to myself as though everything was going on well. My husband has been having heath challenges relating to erectile dysfunction, and he never want us to discuss it together so as to seek for medical solution. I discussed it with his elder brother two Sundays ago, and on Monday the next day he left as though he was going to work. I only got to find out in the afternoon that he left a note for me that the marraige has ended and that I should go and look for mr DO IT WELL. For two weeks now I have not seen him and none of the family members know his whereabout. We have a son that is two years and four months. Any one with usefull advice should not hesitate to do so.
Every morning when you wake up text him this, " I love you no matter what",nothing else only reply if he does. then Tell him " i hope you are ok"
Never focus on his ED, never ask about it, never verbally judge him about any of it.
It is hard for him to learn that ED is not the end of the world. You have embarrassed him by talking to anyone about it, that hurt the ego , pride, soul, and spirit.
Learn that there are other ways to be intimate that can be more powerful than "normal sex". It may require you to learn of them and share with him the things that make you happy. It may require you to ask him what makes him happy as well.
He will have to learn on his own how to deal with his ED.
Stop judging him by ED, and when he judges himself for it, ask him what things about your body turn him on. It is not the end of the world, and tell him when he questions your faith or marriage the you two can weather this storm together.
I pray that you two weather this and are happy.
His phone has been dead since he moved out of the house. His elder brother sent me a text this morning counselling me to build u courage and move on with my life. He said a friend of his came across Jonas in a rail station in Ontario and Jonas pleaded with him never to let anyone know of it.