Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Sitting here watching TV alone and trying to fight the tears and slowly losing that fight. Trying to figure out why I am so afraid of moving on and leaving when I know it is the best thing to do for myself and my "wife". She is doing everything she can to make me feel like crap and I am doing everything I can to do to do the right thing and be a good guy. I am so afraid of being alone and I know I have my children but everyone needs that intimacy that only someone who loves you can give. Why do I want to be around a person who has ruined me emotionally and financially???? How will I ever be able to trust her or another woman again?? When and how will I find a person to fill that void in my life??? Is she already here, if not, where or when will I find her????????? I feel like not only have I lost my best friend, my wife but I am losing all of my other friends in the process. I need to move on but dont know how to start!!!!!!!!!!!
Now, to the next point. It's not fear of Leaving but the fear of the unknown. Just know that you did fine before you met that women and you will be fine when she's gone. Also, just thank god you no longer have to put up with her. Now you can get a hot Canadian or Aussie or Italian women. Grrr.
My ex wife did the same thing to me. Took me a very long time to rebuild and still it does t feel like I've totally recovered. Lost my house, lost one of my car and lost lots of money on the lawyer.
But... I have a trophy wife now(younger and waaay prettier). Hehe. Ex-wife was sooo jealous and that's the icing on the cake.
She cooks great food and doesn't cheat. What more can I ask for?