Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So he moved the last of his things out today and i feel so sick 2 my stomach, empty & alone and all is ok with him. I keep asking my self if there was something more i could have said or done 2 make him stay and how could he just walk away from my kids, i guess he never really thought of them as his own.
are checked out and emotionally disconnected.
Thats it, there is no going back or a relationship.
Most of the time They have moved on already and
you will not get an honest or straight Answer out of
them. They do not want to look at themselves and
What they are doing. You have their answer already,
they want out for whatever reason, HUGS
As to the how could they do that part, I dwelt on that for a LOOOOONG time. This page helped me a lot with coming to terms with what was/is going on in her mind: http://www.abandonment.net/profile-of-an-abandoner. The stuff laid out there explained my ex to a T. From her mom being a serial-abandoner, to her ego trip, to her complete lack of feelings and empathy, to the blame of me for things, to the immediately moving on, to the understatements of pain caused to me. ALL OF IT!!!
All to keep her fantasy world bubble intact and protect her over-inflated self-worth.