So I told the ex how I felt awkward now calling up his folks etc. and thanks a lot. he asked if I felt they no longer loved or cared for me. So I just shook my head yes. So he immediately goes and calls them when he left and so they called me up two days in a row telling me how much they loved me and we are still family and they want me and the kids to come on vacation with them etc etc then his mom said the reason he told her we separated sounded just the same as when his dad broke up with her and that I will find a man that will treat me right! Haha! Finding a man is the farthest thing from my mind! But thanks....I guess?

So he's been all 'concerned' and wanted to know if I spoke to them because he knows I love them and vice versa. I was kinda ticked he did that but I wanted to know the reason he gave them for the split. he's like we grew a part and it's no ones fault etc etc. so I've been feeling all numb and embarrassed and mixed up emotionally again. Ha!

But yeah I'm not on the market for a man. I think she meant well, but that was awkward on so many levels.