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I was sent this via my husband through sms text.
"I don't want to be married I don't want a wife. I'm going to live my life maybe even see other people... I never had anything for me ever. It's my turn to be selfish. If u can't under stand that then that's ok. I don't need therapy I need me time. Maybe this is a mid life crisis. Maybe it's all a stupid situation . Maybe I get hurt out of it. But I'm done playing it safe. I wanted a marriage and 2 of the 3 anniversaries I spent alone and it's coming up again. Maybe you should try be in my shoes for once. Maybe you will understand."
What in the world!! Through text message!!
Disconnected from you and the marriage and are
long gone mentally and morally and are done.
Their decision Had been made long before they ever
Acted on anything like find a new partner or Ask for a
divorce.
You just didn't know what they were thinking About or
planning. I do not believe in mid life crisis thats just a
Convient excuse for why they are acting so immature,
selfish and self centered IMO, HUGS
I agree with mirandac.
There is never a time in a person's life when they should be selfish. I'm sorry your husband has chosen to think only of himself.