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So around 9ish last night I sent her a text that I was ok after getting into a traffic crash and I was in the hospital. I even sent a pic of the truck. No response last night from her.
I know she is not thrilled that her mom and sister stay in contact with me and the fact that they knew about the accident before she did because I said something on my facebook (I unfriended the ex on facebook).
Perhaps she is angry? I don't know, but I'm moving on. I think I did my part.
I do miss her though and the scar did open "a little" but it's back to no contact for me.
I'm not looking for symphathy, but makes me wonder if something like this makes the ex think about us? Maybe I'm just reaching.
I know she is not thrilled that her mom and sister stay in contact with me and the fact that they knew about the accident before she did because I said something on my facebook (I unfriended the ex on facebook).
Perhaps she is angry? I don't know, but I'm moving on. I think I did my part.
I do miss her though and the scar did open "a little" but it's back to no contact for me.
I'm not looking for symphathy, but makes me wonder if something like this makes the ex think about us? Maybe I'm just reaching.
It was appropriate for her to ask if you were OK,and good for you to respond that you are.
I don't see any need for any more communication (unless you have kids).
I wish you a speedy recovery!
Bottom Line: She dumped, was quite nasty in the process and then cut me off completely. That's all I really need to know and it's reason enough for me to steel my spine and begin in earnest to move on.
I foolishly tried to contact her several times to no avail. That just prolonged the process. I was also hoping she would eventually contact me as she had in the past. Equally foolish as I was constantly checking my cell and home phone for texts/messages and facebook to see if she unblocked me.
I will never attempt to contact her again, and on the very slim chance she decides to contact me I've made it difficult by blocking her accross the electronic spectrum.
Now I have no reason to expect a text or voicemail or facebook message, so I just don't check any longer. It actually feels good and even empowering.
Of course she could pop up at my house or send me a letter, but they could also have a snowball fight in Hell. Yeah, right. ;)
well done
now you can relax again
Let it go and move on.
I'm just wondering why you texted her about the accident? Did you want her to feel badly and contact you so you could talk to her?
No contact is best.....no matter what happens in your life now. Contacting the ex, no matter the reason, will only bring you more pain.