YES....
I want to move on. I need to move on. I am ready to move on.
But where is the strength to move on when you feel so broken and hurt??
I know the feeling. I understand how you feel.
You are not alone. Thank you for being here through all this. I am here for you too.

yes its bloody hard sweetie i know
let the tears flow, dont fight how u r feeling xx

keep up with righting journals on how u r feeling on here, dont worry about what other people might think of u
ive set myself some goals on here & every now & them i add to them with a journal
& dont forget one step at a time xx

Jackie,

You have to decide can you live a "happy" life with whatever it is that he has done or who he is? If the answer is NO, you HAVE to move forward. Like Animalito and you, I too am faced with the same decision. I love my ex and will forever. The trust and respect is gone. I personally cannot be in a productive/happy relationship without it. This is me though and my situation not you. If the answer is yes with some buts, try to get him to fix the buts.

Please believe what he does not what he is saying. If he is lying, like mine did to me, he becomes more murky and more difficult to choose to stay!

Be careful to take advise from anyone who is not in your shoes because nobody is. Not me are anyone else. Our situations all be it similar, are not the same. This is your decision, your life and YOU will be responsible for what happens in the future. IE you are in control and it is your ONLY life.

Good luck and I pray you will come to a conclusion you will be forever happy with.

Please let me know if you ever need to get "stuff" off your chest.

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TD

I agree with all these comments. It's like your being pulled in two directions.. One day you think one thing and the next day you think something else. It drives you mad. All we have to do is make a decision and stick to it. We all know what decision we should make but then we let our hearts rule our heads. We all need a one way plane ticket I think.

This was today's topic and I thought it could help you:)

http://tinybuddha.com/blog/5-helpful-tips-for-the-brokenhearted/

I believe that although each of our experiences may be unique to ourselves, we all experience emotional pain and can benefit from sharing with each other. Take what you need and leave the rest :)

You are stronger than you know...

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Thank you, BlueKnight, for posting that link. Great reading!

Jackie, it is hard. I totally understand. No one is strong all the time. That's why we need each other on here to keep us strong when we r weak and alone. I agree with what everyone hasosted in response here. We are here for you. :)

Wow blue knight, thanks so much for sharing. Awesome article. I agree with her one hundred percent and am going to buy myself flowers this weekend! :)