Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I am in such a state of shock still. It was I that kicked him out for hitting my kid. It was I that hit the wall and lived through the trauma and seen it coming. It was I that was in an abusive relationship before and should have known all the signs but ignored them. It was I that tried to hide it all again. It was I that thought I was under control and could change the situation.
Why do I feel like I am in a prepetual state of shock? It's been a month and a half and I am crying all over again. I feel I can't ever trust myself again. I am so numb and emotionally depleted.
My teen is doing so much better and is very happy, I'm glad to say. To the outside world, I appear a little sad, but inside .... I just want to be left alone forever..... is this normal?
Why do I feel like I am in a prepetual state of shock? It's been a month and a half and I am crying all over again. I feel I can't ever trust myself again. I am so numb and emotionally depleted.
My teen is doing so much better and is very happy, I'm glad to say. To the outside world, I appear a little sad, but inside .... I just want to be left alone forever..... is this normal?
Nice to know your teen is doing better though.. that is one good that came from this... so far
In time.. good will come to you too
You'll cry today. Maybe not tomorrow....or maybe you will. You can trust yourself because you realized it was out of your control so you left. You made the right decision, so you show good judgement.
Now that I think of it, Pollo, my thoughts have been discounted to last and are demanding to come first now. I'm afraid there may be a rush of them. Or not. I just have to deal with it all. I have no choice and that I am used to.
Learning to trust yourself and your own judgements. Figuring out why you ended up in the same situation, while healing.
The numb is part of your mind protecting yourself. Keeping some of the things that affected you at bay.
We are all here for you.