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Rman 12/21/2009

Well, I'm here at work today. I'm actually the only one in the office, as everyone else is home due to the blizzard we had this weekend. As I was sitting here, I caught myself staring at the wall, thinking about my life. This past year has been a roller coaster ride, to say the least...
I just can't help but wonder how the events that have transpired in my life, have affected the people who know me.
What if I have been selfish in this whole breakup process? Is that a bad thing? There has to come a time when it is no longer about me. There has to come a time when I think about how my situation is affecting the wall I am talking to...
I will now make love to the wall...

deleted_user 12/21/2009

I don't even know the difference between being selfish and "looking out for myself". I know one is considered bad and one is considered good.

Hell, my STBX wife is saying, from her perspective that she was "only looking out for herself", whereas I think she is "selfish".

Does it even matter anymore?

Furthermore, does that wall you're with now have a sister?

deleted_user 12/21/2009

You can stare at the wall, think, be selfish (no, that's not so bad for some of us), but don't make love to the wall... sick. :P

deleted_user 12/21/2009

Does your wall have a friend? *winks - at the wall of course*

deleted_user 12/21/2009

wall sex is great...

ooops..but not sex with a wall

deleted_user 12/21/2009

It's not about you... I mean it "can" be, if you want to write off your children, but I don't think you are built like that.

My kids hate my guts right now, but I know in the long run, I am doing what's best for them, myself, and their mother.

As a result, we will all be happier.

Rman 12/21/2009

TD, that is why you are one giant step ahead of me. You have crossed over to the other side and me...
I talk to walls...
something is wrong with me...

p.s. - the wall is a perv...

deleted_user 12/21/2009

Not that far ahead Rman.

I still sleep on a cot in a building I have to sneak into. LOL! But I look at that as just a stage I have to go through to be happy, and where I want.

Rman 12/21/2009

So perhaps, now you will reconsider our Crabco venture? I mean, who wouldn't love a joint that sells crab tacos into the wee hours of the morning?

deleted_user 12/21/2009

Put on the song, Off the Wall by Michael Jackson as you stare/make love to the wall. Light some candles, throw some rose petals.

deleted_user 12/21/2009

I would reconsider... however I will be upgrading my cot to a room soon. LOL!!

lycesq 12/21/2009

Rman - if your wall answers back, run to the shrink!

Lynne

deleted_user 12/21/2009

Please don't stick anything through the hole in the wall Rman.

*shuddering at the thought of sharp blades*

LKess 12/21/2009

I talk to the air.....walking dialogue throughout my house......like a pissed off soliloquy........
I think the holidays are like the climax of every bit of craziness in our lives........I need booze.......lots and lots and lots of booze...........

deleted_user 12/21/2009

I was in your area on Thanksgiving Rman... did your white care pass my white car? I was on Emmorton road.

deleted_user 12/21/2009

I love walls, they make great projection screens, I watch and produce all kinds of great movies on walls.

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