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My oldest is 11. The best place for him is at home with me..too much craziness going on in the world.
He, of course, has a different opinion :)
Here's sort of what I hope for:
January - March - the first quarter of my divorce year; a shock to the system and hypothermia sets in to my emotions.
April - June - slowly coming back to life after the devastation to the land that was deep winter. I hope, oh how I hope, that the actual divorce gets completed in this timeframe.
July - September - the bones, the blood, the heart and organs warm back through and the sap flows again in my veins.
October - December - Letting go of the old. Re-defining on my terms, esp. through the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays. My STBX hates the holidays and I love them - for years I have been settled with his dread at this time of year; I can't wait for a Christmas free of his anxiety and misery.
Going to get it all tonight and tomorrow - rain, snow, sleet....
I would love a warm sunny day right about now!
It was absolutely beautiful today.
Now ex-spousal unit want to move back to VA cuz she doesn't like it here anymore even though she's the one who wanted to move here in the first place.
Still living the residual effects of being a doormat to a domineering woman.
See? I knew I could weave something about divorce into this lovely chat about the weather! :)
Mark