A pretty woman like you should not be crying! There are men who would love you to pieces, Nix. Maybe you and your girlfriends can go out this weekend and have some fun. I sure hope that you do. :)

i know the pain you are feeling right now. facebook is like torture right now. its so hard to hear this but better things are waiting for you. you deserve someone who will give you all that you need. sending lots of smiles and hugs your way

Nix192,

I'm so sorry you are here. Everyone here knows what you are going through and you are not alone.It's been said over and over here that this is just going to take time. You just can't forget someone over night, much as we all would like to. Tell your firends if you want to talk about him YOU will broach the topic. Otherwise tell them you don't want to hear ANYTHING about him. If they are really friends they will respect and abide by this. Hang in there.

Thankyou guys i feel so much better now. Im just about to go round the friends who spoke to him last night and im dreading hearing all about it,im going to ask her if she wouldnt mind blocking him or unfriending him from facebook as its only making me feel worse hearing about him. I hope she does it.

Be careful. Breakup by association is a slippery slope. You are asking them to choose sides. How are you going to feel is she doesn't unfriend him? If it was me, I would tell them you want to hear absolutely nothing about him. If they bring him up remind them of this and then change the subject. True friends will honor your request.

I agree with Gcrew, tell your friends that you do not want to hear a thing about him. It will only hurt you and you are hurting enough already.

After a couple of days like this, Nix, I really hope that you get out of the house and have some fun to offset it all.

xoxo xoxo xoxo

I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes I'm fine and can function normally and then all of a sudden he will pop into my mind and I'll end up crying. It's really hard when all I want to do is cry. You are lucky you have a bestfriend to at least talk to. I have nobody I can share my thoughts and feeling with. Some days I think I wont make it, and dont even want to get out of bed. Sometimes, I wish I wouldnt even wake up. He was my bestfriend and the love of my life and not a second of the day goes by without thinking about him. You arent alone.

thankyou everyone im at my friends and she has blocked him on facebook so i feel better now. The conversation they had last night was apparently him saying that i took it the wrong way as he never meant to break up with me he only said he needed time to sort himself out. yeah right thats why he made himself single on facebook straight away.Hes probably trying to make himself feel better cause he knows how much im hurting.

People will say or do things to make themselves feel better because they are hurting too, and not because they know you are hurting.

Heck, you should do the same thing too! :)