know that you are never alone. you've shown great strength in taking responsibility for you and your child in a very difficult time. you are strong. know that you can always lean on me.

being overwhelmed often stems from trying to address too many things at once. step back and consider one thing at a time, but be sure to take down time, to free you mind

its never a bad consideration to seek counselling. in the meantime feel free to reach out

hugs

Wow, you are one smart lady.

TRUST that things are going to work out. They will.

And getting rid of this guy is the smartest decision you could ever make.

You will not only get through, but make a excellent life for yourself and your child.

This guy will NEVER be there for you ( no matter what he promises), will complicate your life, make you miserable, cause your child to grow up in a miserable home....I could go on.

You are doing the right thing.

You deserve better. Your child deserves better.

Don't settle. Don't be tempted by his promises.

Things will work out.

Hi
The choice you've made isn't just healthier for your child, it's healthier for you too. It may take time but you will realise that. Coming on here is the first step to reaching out. I hope you find the courage to contact your family and close friends, I'm sure they will be a sympathetic ear on the end of a phone.
Most people can never financially support children but they do, we get by through whatever means necessary., and mentally...you can do this, you are strong, you are courageous, you can make it, try to think positive, be that mum who endured and came out on top, go for it girl.
S. X

pack your bags, get a bus ticket and get yourself and your precious baby to your family and friends. It may be difficult to admit you may have made a bad decision regarding the choice of the father of your baby, but you can redeem yourself many times over by making the right decision now by showing you love your child enough to swallow your pride and ask for help.

@Firstimeandgoingalone,
Wow, I am so proud of you, you are taking the initiative to stay away from your child's father, and this is the best decision you could ever make for both you and your baby. I am sorry you are feeling alone and overwhelmed at this time but eventually you will feel better. I love to encourage to find groups in your local community (it could be church, women centers, pregnancy matters) but you are likely to find a like-minded individual in these groups or they might be a sense of support since you do not have any friends or family close by. Do not be embarrassed, you did the right thing for both you and your unborn child. Seek counseling as well, because this will help you in the long run. You are a very courageous and beautiful mom (to be) and do not forget that. Things will get better in time. Also, as it relates to financial support, I would encourage you to seek stay at home jobs (do not pay any more for any packages), but look for some on INDEED, or other reputable sites. I wish all the best and I am positive you are going to do great, just take it a day at a time and keep working on staying healthy for both you and your son. Hugs and kisses!

If the age on your profile is accurate, you are not a young teenager who ran off with her high school boyfriend. You are a grown woman. Don't let your pride and ego harm your baby. At the age of 38, I had to admit my failures and move back home to my parents to recover from alcoholism, undiagnosed mental illness and a toxic relationship with a narcissist. It was difficult moving back into the bedroom I shared with my sister during my coming up years. It was very difficult moving back and following the "house rules" of my parents. But I healed, grew, recovered and got healthy. And rather than recriminations from my parents about how badly I had fucked-up, I now am told by my parents that they are proud of me and the healthy woman I have become.

Good luck.

@sjs777; @Dandelion; @Shaun46; @Deelove. Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. Reading your comments is a great reminder that i'm making the right decision. I have such a battle going on right now and I do have way to many things going on. I will definitely be seeking out the help of a counselor and maybe I can find some local support groups. I don't think I'm ready just yet to tell my family and friends back home. @Cora_Belle as much as I would love to move back in with my parents that is no longer an option. My mother died when I was young and my father is remarried and moving there wouldn't be an option. I know they would be proud of me no matter what I'm just not ready yet.

Thank you so much everyone. I woke up this morning feeling just a bit more encouraged that I can do this. Hopefully everyday I gain more and more confidence. I have 2 months to figure this out before my life completely changes again.