Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
im really finding it hard today,i cant stop crying.he left again yesterday after a week of me believing things were going to be ok.he just dosent love me anymore.im in one of them moods were im so tired through lack of sleep but couldnt sleep if i tried,i cant consontrate on anything.im even anoying myself with the crying.why do i still love him after everything he has put us through?i hate myself for being so weak.
It's his loss and you deserve so much better for yourself. Let yourself grieve, it's healthy, just don't let yourself wallow in it. Do what you can to take care of yourself. Make sure you eat something and try the best you can to get some rest, even if it's just a cat nap here and there.
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Crying and not being able to sleep is normal grieving. Been there, still doing that. But it does get better, very slowly. You still love him after everything he put you through because it takes awhile for your heart to catch up to what your mind already knows. There is no faucet for love to just shut off, even when faced with an affair (I have been faced with it too). It takes time for it to fade slowly, and I'm not even sure it completely goes away.
Big hugs!!!