Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I'm really struggling. The dreams r getting worse and worse. This morning when I finally got back to sleep at 5am, I had a dream that he accidentally sent me a message he meant to send to his new gf. I cried and screamed in my dream so hard that it jolted me awake. The saddest part is, even though I know it is a dream, I wanna cry in real life. For the past 4 or 5 days all I've wanted to do is contact him. And I usually become so overpowered by that desire that I usually do. Even though I know it just starts the rejection all over again. This is all becoming so unbearable. It's physically painful. Everyone around me thinks I'm getting better, but I've only gotten good at pretending to function. And it's been 4 months. He was my best friend. Talking to him is like the only way I know how to overcome something and feel better. This really needs to end. I need to pick up the pieces and get on with life but it's just not happening. I've tried counseling, books, religion, everything. I feel like I've run out of options and I'm drowning.
Try to find a Divorce Care group at one of your local churches. I went through their sessions at least three times. I was in a different stage of divorce each time and I still found the sessions helpful. I made it through my divorce with Divorce Care, a great attorney and a very good therapist.