Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So my husband moved out last week and told me it was over he didn't feel the same way I do, I did something stupid and tried killing myself today didn't get it accomplished then I find out he's been seeing that woman this whole time having sex with her and he told her bout me trying to kill myself her response was checkmate she just trying to get you back, I'm feeling worse then before when does this end? I don't know why he would do this to me and our kids. Just feel so awful and how is it after finding this out I still want him.... will that end?
Call to seek help and maybe get on some Meds
For awhile.
Some people need to be on meds because they
Are not coping well. If you are suicidal or if you can
not take Care of your children or Get out of bed, meds
might be best. Some just need to take the edge off.
The trouble with the meds is they numb you up
So you are not really dealing with your feelings
and emotions normally. Some in my divorce care
Group on meds could not even get angry at the
infidelity. I asked how can you start to heal if you
are not Angry at what was done.
I did numb up around my ex during the separation
When i saw him. It was the only way i could do it
And stay sane. When there is a third party involved
It adds way more stress, rejection, pain and hurt to
an already bad situation. HUGS
Divorce and decree are in place. During the
Divorce you are in overload and overwhelm
A lot and then all the financial and Parenting
decisions need to Be made. Your STBX will
want out without too many of his Financial
consequences for himself.
I found therapy and divorce care very helpful
For me. It helped with all the grief and being with
Others going thru the same things. Most in my
Divorce group were there for infidelity, there were
A Few because of abuse and addiction issues.
There are other divorce groups around too.
Its a very bad and trying time so try to be extra
gentle with yourself. The rejection is the hardest
to bear At the beginning and all the betrayal.
There have been many of us on here have gotten
thru it and there is light at the End of the tunnel.
With grief you have to go thru it to get To the other
side, there is no easy way.
Its the death of Your marriage and all your dreams
And plans for the future with your spouse. I cried for
4 months after he left and the marriage had been
Unhealthy for the last 12 years. It still Hurt a lot there
was a lot of grief to move thru and many feelings,
emotions to process and lots of detaching after The
divorce was final. HUGS
Blessings to you and your children.