Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I just joined this group tonight, so bear with me if I say something stupid.
My live-in BF of nearly 13 years recently told me that he found someone new. He continued to live with me and go out on "dates" with her. I couldn't take it anymore. I was miserable and he was totally blind to my pain. He called me psycho. He said he didn't want to hear "my shit". I finally told him that one of us had to go.
I came home yesterday and he was packing his truck. He told me he'd be back today to finish. I cried all night. Yep, he came back today and took the remainder of his stuff. I have been crying all day. He just walked past me like he couldn't see me.
How is possible to cry this much? How is it possible for him to just not care?
I seriously don't understand.
My live-in BF of nearly 13 years recently told me that he found someone new. He continued to live with me and go out on "dates" with her. I couldn't take it anymore. I was miserable and he was totally blind to my pain. He called me psycho. He said he didn't want to hear "my shit". I finally told him that one of us had to go.
I came home yesterday and he was packing his truck. He told me he'd be back today to finish. I cried all night. Yep, he came back today and took the remainder of his stuff. I have been crying all day. He just walked past me like he couldn't see me.
How is possible to cry this much? How is it possible for him to just not care?
I seriously don't understand.
I am sorry you find yourself here though.
Welcome to the group
I think the rules are pretty lax here, so go ahead and call him some names. Sounds like he deserves it. I'm sorry you're going through this. I cried everyday for three months so it is possible to cry that much. It does improve with the passage of time. Hang in there.