I saw my stbx yesterday. I had to get some clothes from the house. I don't understand how he can tell me he still loves me and loves the time we shared and would like to go out after our divorce. He talks to me like we are still "together". Lots of everyday conversation. He says it is because the close relationship and friendship we shared is still there and he can't just turn it off. How can he divorce me if he still feels like that? He is interviewing to change jobs and move out of town, which is what we had talked aobut doing together. How did we ever get to this place? He tells me how beautiful I am. He is still being nice, when we aren't arguing. We talk more than we argue, but he refuses to give it another shot and go to counseling. WHY?! WHY?! WHY?! I am so confused!!! I just don't understand!! Seven years of my life was devoted to him and our family. I still find myself more concerned with what he is going thru than what I am going thru. I don't know what to do. Do I really want to try to convince him to give us another chance or do I really need to move on? Please dear Lord, give me guidance and strength. I know I will have good days and bad days, everyone does...this just
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