I am LIVIDDDDD! My ex and I broke up just over a month ago and we had still been in contact. We would text he would still call me every now and then. Since I recently posted my grad pics he has been texting me every single day telling me how much he misses me how good i look in my pictures. He had been saying he has been emotional lately and that he misses me and thinks that we should see each other again. Then he mentions sex, and says we should have sex at least one more time and it was so magical between us blah blah, and i actually still care for him more than just the phsyical and i said no that is not a good idea, that will just lead to one of us or both of us getting hurt, and he just kept saying how much he missed me. Then my best friend texts me and tells me to look at his instagram story, it says content is not available. Then i said he must have deleted it she says no it is still there he must have hid it from you. basically he had dinner, wine and candles set up, and had the little poll vote asking if he should invite someone over. It is like why are you texting me and he had texting me at one that morning saying that he was thinking about me and telling me how much he missed me and wanted to see me. We dated well over 6 years so I know he didn't think he was going to be having sex with me and entertaining other girls at the same time and hiding it from me! He is the one broke up with me and begged to be my friend and he said he felt so bad for how we ended and bad that he hurt me and then he really wanted to try and get over on me again. That is not even the end of it, so i texted my other best friend and told her and she said she had something to show me. On her birthday which was last week, my ex had messaged her saying happy birthday he loved the photo that she posted and he hopes their paths cross again?!?! WTF does that mean, then after he was trying to figure out who told me about his post he also asked if she had blocked his phone number. She was like i got a new phone (so that means he had been trying to contact her, thats my best friend what why?) Then he was like so are we still cool? She said that her loyalty lies with me and that it isnt healthy for me to be friends with her and he did be wrong. He responded that yeah i didn't like the way i handled things, i never should have gotten back with her in the first place. Then he said that he didnt realize he would run out of time her so soon but he understand. first of all they had one class together in high school and only every hung out because of me they were never friends outside of me and he only had her number because i gave it to him a couple months ago. Did he really think it was appropriate to flirt with my BEST FRIEND?? Then to tell her that he never should have gotten back with me? this was back in decemeber we got back together after i had studied abroad. he BEGGGED me to come back, and when i was there last month he was leaving i love you notes for me to wake up to and even asking me to move in with him! I am insulted that one he didnt think she was telling me everything two that he really tried to hit on my best friend. Then to digress. After i saw what he said on his IG story since we were texting i told him that he was a jerk (Using more explicit words) His response was that i wasn't trying to get back with you so it wasnt disrespectful and i only hid it from you to protect you. we have been broken up for a month now, i wasnt hiding anything. We dated almost 7 years and so what it has been a month he never went more than 3 days without telling me he missed me and wanted to see me. He hid it from me because he knows that was wrong to post. Then it was a slap in the face to say i wasnt trying to get back with you, so he thought after 6 years he would be able to tell he misses me and all of this and i would just start sleeping with him again and be okay that he didnt want to be with me, and he is entertaining other girls, he is crazy. I stoppped responding, i was so angry i was shaking. He called and texted all night of course i never responded. I am completely done with him, I never want to see him or talk to him again.He is the definition of a douche. My question to you all is should i tell him what bothered me? He kept texting me saying i didnt think the IG story would hurt your feelings and i am sorry i mean i deleted everything i threw out all of his stuff, so i am over it, but i would love to just tell him off.He doesnt even know i know about my friends messages, i just want to tell him she was texting me the whole time and she never has and never will want him, and how dare he think i would sleep with him while he is sleeping with other girls. I have been livid. I couldnt even sleep last night because i am so angry. I just want to send him a text going off and saying everything that was wrong about the situation adn then block him and never talk to him again.I do however want to be the bigger person and i dont want him to have any satisfction ever, so i want anyone who was willing to read my story's opinion. What do you guys would hurt him the most? I just cant believe he said all those things oh i never should have gotten back with her then proceeded to text me like 20 times and called me every hour until 3 in the morning. So please I am about to go to my kickboxing classs and releieve some stress, but if anyone has any advice and thinks i should or shouldnt respond please let me know.