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casey1993
casey1993

My soon to be exwife is using me and cheating on me.... She has guys name and number a random girl name... I asked about this 3 times and comes up with a differnt excuse each time... I have no friends now bc of her... She been acting so weird a lately... I am looking into pkaces for my own and getting myself together... My marriage is not worth saving.... Im gonna be so lonely bc i have no friends to talk to when iget out of here... Seems like i should end my life on saturday night new year eve.. Im falling apart

MontgomeryDad
MontgomeryDad
Please don't do anything rash. I know things seem awful right now, and I am going through something similar, but it is not worth taking your life over. You say you're getting yourself together, so that is definitely a step in the right direction. Once you get yourself completely together, you'll find that there is so much of this world to enjoy, and that your soon to be ex wife is not worth the aggravation.

I would suggest going to a therapist. I have started to do that, and it has calmed me down a lot. Not perfect, but better, and getting better every day. There are a lot of good crisis hotlines to call as well. Your life is more important than to end it because of something your ex did. Trust me, you can and will be happy again. And everyone here is here for you.
LearningwhoiamKB36
LearningwhoiamKB36
No, We all need you here! Your kids need you and their lives would never be the same again. Think of them please! I know that you are hurting..Heck, I am hurting but I believe I will get over this just like you will too.
Hang in there!
PeppermintPatrick
PeppermintPatrick
please life has ups n downs this will pass call a suicide hotline she is not worth ur life
Samuel4586
Samuel4586
hey bud i know your going through a hard time burt here is my number shoot me a txt as soon as you get this i will talk to you 5207099570
davempb
davempb
Please don't do anything rash dude. My wife cheated on me too and we lost everything in our lives as well. After time things get better, sounds corny, but they do get better. Things are not great now, but at least I enjoy things in life, sports, good meals, my job. I am not saying a year from now you will be dancing down the street, but things will get better and you will good again.