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aggiedolphin823 07/10/2009

A good friend of mine who lives in Canada will be in Ohio on Sunday at a relatives house. We had made plans to meet up to hang out for a couple of weeks now. Last night he asks me to check and see how much a bus ticket would be because his family might not want to stay there after all and he still wants to see me. If he does that though he wants to stay the night at my house. I care about him a lot and he feels the same about me and in the past we have kissed and made out. I am excited to see him again but at the same time scared because I haven't had a guy spend the night in a long time - even if nothing happens between us sexually.

deleted_user 07/10/2009

I wouldn't read to much into it and go with the flow. I would just enjoy the time with your friend and whatever happens happens. Are either of you in a commited relationship? If not, then enjoy each other's company and take it one thing at a time. Relax, enjoy and enjoy it!!

aggiedolphin823 07/10/2009

Thanks Leayre, no neither of us are in a relationship. I do intend to enjoy seeing him, it has been a long time :)

hurtinandhealin2560 07/10/2009

I agree with Leayre--just enjoy your time together. You'll know if the time is right or not. Don't feel pressured. If he is a true friend and a gentleman he will understand (but just in case, a quick trip to the drugstore for those, um, "protection" items wouldn't hurt).

I hope you enjoy his visit. At least you have a man coming to your house; the only guys I can get are repairmen~lol.

deleted_user 07/10/2009

sounds like fun
Enjoy and see where that take you

Rman 07/10/2009

As long as you trust him to respect your wishes, there is absolutely nothing for you to worry about...
Watch a movie, order a pizza, hang out and let whatever happens, happen...
You will find your comfort zone after a few minutes...
Have fun!

aggiedolphin823 07/10/2009

I am feeling better about it, thanks for the advice. It just kind of took me by surprise. :)

deleted_user 07/10/2009

Who's sneaky?

totallychaotic247 07/10/2009

Have fun with him. I agree also with the trip to the drugstore!

deleted_user 07/10/2009

oh sounds like total good thing : ) just do as suggested... order pizza, watch a movie, catch up chatting... and see where it goes : ).... by the way? what is with that dog's mouth in your picture? lol

aggiedolphin823 07/10/2009

Lol, feeling that is just my dog Oreo. She had been racing around the living room and then we were playing with the rope and she was panting that hard and has a BIG mouth. It was funny so I took a pic.

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