congratulations it is good to be clear of a such a harbor whale

Although it's a bitter/sweet congratulations, let's look at the bright side of this.
The worst and ugliest part is over. Time to heal and move forward.
Blessings and hugs my friend.

I feel your pain, i am sorry it still hurts when you
Loved that person at some time and thought You
had a life together.

Hugs

I wish you much happiness. Out of these ashes I hope life brings you a beautiful new beginning.

Congrats - I am just starting a divorce and would like to know how you get to the point of rejoicing the divorce rather than being depressed and dejected over it. I want to skip it all and feel like you.

It gets better after its over, even though
It does not seem possible. Then the
healing Can begin, its still not fun or
Easy afterwards.

Its better than Limbo, fighting, financials,
lawyers and all that paperwork.

Let yourself grieve your losses, support
Groups are great at this time.

Hugs

I hope you find the happiness you deserve :)

Best wishes in this new phase of your life!

Linny, after the first couple months I started writing letters to my ex spelling out all the shit she did to me over our life together. I also wrote letters every time she did something wrong after we seperated. I never mailed any of these letters but would refer back to them often when I was feeling down.

My advise would be to do the same. When you can see in black and white what put you in this position you get a sense of relief, at least I did.

Its not perfect as I still had many bad days where I really missed her but it really helped lessen the impact.

I also suggest being as nice as possible during the process. Name calling and fighting doesn't help. Be fair but be firm and avoid contact as much as possible. Hope this helps and good luck.

Imma coming late to this party, but I still brought tequila!!!! :)

Congrats, my friend!