Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Today, i signed the lease on my new place. I posted my good news on Facebook. My ex calls me & tells me he doesnt want me to move out of our house (we split everything & he lives somewhere else). And he was pissed & doing the whole "so if, when i want to get back with you, you'll be stuck in a lease" & telling me he's in love with me & he didn't mean the stuff he told me two months ago (you're not what i want, date other people, i don't want to be with you etc).
My thing is the fucking nerve of this guy. Never in two months did he say he wanted to work it out, not once. & then he calls me today, the day i sign my lease & tells me this bullshit to try to keep me as an option, im not stupid. He told me today "i was waiting for you to seem interested in talking to me & getting back with me", when i told him i wanted space since he told me what he did two months ago.
If he really wanted he would have fucking tried. I just think its bs he waits until today to tell me after i signed the lease. Not that i would take him back any way. After all i don't feel like with him i could of magically became what he wanted over night. Its manipulation & im tired of it. Ugh