Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So today was a hot wonderful day in New England. You do not pass this day up. I invited my daughter out with me, she's 17.5 years old, and she declined. So I went out and tubed on the river, had some drink and chose to forget about it all. HA! Joke is on me. Because I still live with my ex, he called "not to be a dick" and proceeded to tell me what a horrible person I am. I stayed in contact with my kid all day. She was well aware of my plans. But he flew off the fucking handle and I came home. He said horrible things like what am I going to do about my daughter. Hey asshole she's our daughter. OURS! But I guess because she isn't from his sperm the divorce means she is no longer his either. I am so pissed off right now. Seriously. I have been so stuck in being hurt that this anger thing is a new bag of tricks. UGH! I need a friend but who will possibly understand this. My kid is happy I am home but perfectly content hanging in her room. I need to move out right? My house goes on the market Sunday. Anyone want it? FUCK FUCK FUCK. Too many feelings, not enough room to put them in.
I'm sorry for your abusive husband....he clearly has issues of his own and unfortunately you and other people are experiencing his fallout. Yes, you need to get away from him....at all costs. Life is too short to have to settle for that type of emotional abuse.
Often try to mess with you when they are trying To
keep you off balance financially and emotionally.
You have been married for 5 years and together 9
years, every state Is a little different on rules and regs
With a divorce and the child is yours.
I would at a minimum make sure what you qualify
for out of the Home sale. Whats his big rush? Quick
do it yourself divorce And you can trust him??? My
ex Tried that one i hired my own lawyer because i did
Not trust him and he also had a GF all ready and waiting.
HUGS
I try not to hold onto anger or act out of it. Being angry at him doesn't hurt him it hurts you.
I hope tomorrow is better for you.