Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi
I have been married for 23 yrs. To make a long story short i am considering ending our marriage. My husband left home b/c he says I treat him like shit. He neglected to tell me he was back using coke. I also had an affair 12 years ago of which I told him, (mistake). He also had an involvement that he said he would never have done if I didn't. My husband has been on and off with his drug addictions. He is a hard worker and provided a very nice life for our family with his flooring business although we are in debt. I found out we were in forcloser when I filed the first time. We reconciled and got on our feet but all my husbands disdributors are taking him to court and he owes credit cards of up to 90,000. He says it is all the economy. Right now he is living at his brothers, barley answering his phone, confused, and not functioning.
I still love him but if I told you things he has said and done to me when he is using or in a manic state your head would spin. I am seeing a lawyer tomorrow but am still torn about giving up. Any support is appreciated. thank you Cissy
I have been married for 23 yrs. To make a long story short i am considering ending our marriage. My husband left home b/c he says I treat him like shit. He neglected to tell me he was back using coke. I also had an affair 12 years ago of which I told him, (mistake). He also had an involvement that he said he would never have done if I didn't. My husband has been on and off with his drug addictions. He is a hard worker and provided a very nice life for our family with his flooring business although we are in debt. I found out we were in forcloser when I filed the first time. We reconciled and got on our feet but all my husbands disdributors are taking him to court and he owes credit cards of up to 90,000. He says it is all the economy. Right now he is living at his brothers, barley answering his phone, confused, and not functioning.
I still love him but if I told you things he has said and done to me when he is using or in a manic state your head would spin. I am seeing a lawyer tomorrow but am still torn about giving up. Any support is appreciated. thank you Cissy
it took me a very long time to heal from my trauma with an addict. I wish you the best in this.... Alanon really helped me get myself together.
I also learned that although I could no longer leave myself in danger with my ex husband and had to leave him behind...it didnt mean that I had to sacrifice myself, or not love me too. I had to find a very delicate balance in it all.. there was a lot of hurt and so much pain, but I let that go. i learned I could still have love for him in my heart as a human being and take care of myself too.
Hugs...
((hugs))
Every situation is different, and I am RELIEVED to hear that he is not abusive toward you.
I wish you the best!