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Has anyone ever taken the path of self-destruction in order to deal with certain issues? What if pushing yourself to the edge is the key to recovery? I've often wondered how far I can go...
Is there a limit?
Is there a limit?
NOT
Self destruction - the very word says it all. There's no reason to test your limits - life will do that for you all by itself.
I've mentioned before, that you have alot of anger issues and you're trying to bury them. And, it won't work. You HAVE to deal with them.
You're a beautiful, very sensitive person, and you deserve to be your very own best friend. Treat your best friend with respect and love - otherwise, you'll soon hit bottom...a bottom that is further down than you've ever seen before. It's very dark down there - and you'll only have yourself to blame :O/
Stand up and dust off honey. Enough is Enough.
May be time to get into some counseling.
Seriously, Rman. Your threads over the past few days are disconcerting. Seek professional help.
i refuse to believe that you are "a lost cause"
Agree with the others, time to sit down with a pro and let all the toxic crap out. This is beyond our expertise.
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I don't recommend it.
Can you try skydiving or bungee jumping instead?
I can guarantee that pushing yourself to the edge is not solution. And self-destruction will only, well - DESTROY YOU and those YOU LOVE.
Take it from a self-abuser (recovered) with 35 years of cutting it is no answer and does not work. One thing that self destruction does in its many forms - and why it is such a slippery slope - is it does dull that pain and distracts the mind. You need to find an outlet for all those emotions that are like poison in your veins right now.
Know we all care about you---
You keep hinting at, alluding to the notion that you are going to do something to hurt yourself. Get help. It is clear to me and numerous others here that you are in a bad place. We are here to offer support, but it is also selfish to continue manipulate people into paying attention to you when you choose to do nothing to help yourself.
We do care about you and hope you get better. But I don't think we can help you find this edge your looking for.
It is clear that you are having dark thoughts. Please seek professional help. We are all worried about you.