Buying a vibrator...

Lynne

Living in a monastery?

I understand Monks make their own beer.

Not that that's the direction I would consider (the "still liking women and still wanting sex" thing being a factor in that decision), but hey, it's an option.

LOL at Lynne...my daughter cover that one for me for Christmas.
Well next for me is still being there for my daughter and being her fultime parent.
But I am not giving up on finding love somewhere down the line.

Next. Well in my house it's laundry and grocery shopping. Then cleaning the bathrooms, paying bills and back to the beginning again.

Put your energies into helping others, getting physically fit, take care of a pet or two, and find alot of hobbies.

Something tells me that if do even 1/2 these things,..your whole perspective will change.

Now imagine if you stopped liking pizza...
that would be really bad...

You get over your ex.
You have dealt through the pain and moved on with your life.
You don't want to ever be in a relationship again.

GET A VASECTOMY.

You don't ever want to have sex again, but you will force yourself.

Now what?

Yes.

Not liking Pizza would be very bad and likely against my DNA.

You rethink it, meet someone, get involved, get ditched and the WHOLE fucking ordeal starts all over again.

Whoops, did I sound bitter?

Hmmmmm

I have a question. If you have resolved yourself to never being in a relationship again or having sex again then are you really healed and have you really moved on. It would seem to me that you haven't at all and that you are simply building a wall. In order to be "healed" would you not have to be open to new adventures and new people and new experiences and new friends. If you have truly moved on then wouldn't it be that you are okay with either scenario of being alone or being with someone else.

Just some thoughts

**sings lullaby to rbaby**

seriously though, just give it time. things will fall into place. don't be so hard on yourself. you will love again. i am sure of it.

and eat pizza

then, against your own wishes you thaw out

(waving...hello? thawer-outer in attendance)

I'm inclined to think BooBoo's on to something.