Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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needafriendplease 10/14/2013

Doctor confirmed i have stress., only thing is she gave me lot medication. Naproxen for my muscle pain and 50mg Amitriptilin which is an antidepressant. she also advised me to have physio. I dont like the idea of all the tablets though

. Tommorow i got my counciling session, and also seeing a solicitor to start the divorce. The people at the counciling centre use a solicitor there and have recommended him.
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Hadn't heard off my husband in over a week but I did get some texts off him late last night, which i ignored

MarkFarks 10/14/2013

You know, there is a lot of taboo about psychiatry even still today, It is important to remember that your brain can have problems the same way that the rest of your body does. Remember it takes some time for the antidepressants to work, we are usually talking 2-3 weeks.
I hope the antidepressants and the counseling work for you.
Good luck

deleted_user 10/14/2013

The positives are you got a diagnosis...if it seems like a lot of meds;, then go back so she can adjust accordingly. Also, congrats to you for moving forward with the solicitor and no contact. It's hard, I know.

deleted_user 10/14/2013

My doctor prescribed Wellbutrin for my depression and amitriptyline to help me sleep. It's made a world of difference. I've always had trouble sleeping and the breakup made it worse but now I'm sleeping like a baby at night and I'd like to continue taking it.

It's no wonder your muscles hurt. When you're stressed your muscles tense up and get sore. At least try the meds, if you don't like them I'm sure there are other things you can try.

deleted_user 10/14/2013

I hate meds, so I can understand where your coming from. It's a recommendation from your doctor, but it's still your body and your choice. I think you could try them, and do it in a lower dose then adjust if needed or just not continue the medicine if it didn't help. Use your own judgement on that. I may hate meds, but when we are going through this we can use any help we can get. Xxxxxx

deleted_user 10/15/2013

I'm with everyone else....try the meds. If your muscle pain is ok...don't take the Naproxen. But I'd take the amitriptyline. The better sleep might make all the difference in the world. I'm so glad he's laying off a bit.

Huge hugs!
Deb

murphytoronto 10/15/2013

I'm in my second week of antidepressants
I think they are starting to help a little

But very much need therapy too

Lorazepam is the only thing getting me to sleep at night

murphytoronto 10/15/2013

Truth is I tried to cope without them for nearly three months and just wasn't coping....My friends kept telling me I have to go on them
I was barely functioning each day and am so grief stricken I don't want to live half the time

Constant crying.....triggered everywhere all the time

I tried to do it without....I hate taking them....but I am willing to try...short term

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