So sorry to hear you are struggling. I am nit yet divorced. We do still live under the same roof, but with little communication, no physical touch or help of any kind. Even though he is still here-- I am incredibly lonely. As hard as it may be--- I think if you try to look at this as an end to an unhappy time-- but look toward the new year as one day at a time to try to look forward to a new beginning... it may help.

That is what is helping me (and many others)
get by

Hugs, Kim

Thanks appreciate your support
Thanks for taking a few mins and writing
I’ve been trying for the past 5 years to just move on and hope things get better
Most people end up finding happiness and the right person
I just can’t believe so much time keeps going by and I can’t find the right person or just have no luck
Maybe it will happen one day but at this point it feels like it will take a miracle
Sorry to hear your in a tough situation
I wish it was better for you as well
Are you planning to get divorced or do you think you can work it out somehow?
Let’s stay in touch and talk
Maybe that can help
I hope I can make friends and have support
Always dreamed of that
It sucks feeling so alone and not having anyone

Thanks Lavender
Sorry your also feeling down
I know I always compare and my ex has it all compared to me it hurts
But I’m so crazy that I still love her and I’m happy she has it all
Not many people will say that and it sounds weird but I truly love her after all this time
I don’t think I’m lacking something or crazy I just think I really love her and it hurts that I can’t even have her apart of my life at all not even a friend nothing
I feel like I was never anything to her
Life can be cruel you love someone and they don’t love you
What can I do about that
Just try to accept it but years later it just doesn’t get better
Like you said I lost so much her family friends special times
I wish I had normal things going but I can’t just make a normal family or make good friends
If I don’t have any luck then what can I do
I try and try to get out there and make things happen I really do
But it’s like a brick wall every thing I try it’s rejection or something goes wrong
Anyways I will keep trying but hope I can be strong and make friends
Let’s stay in touch

Yes. Its natural because you spent so much time, energy, and dreams on there. I was with someone for 10 years. We broke up 4 years ago. She remarried and a small part of me still misses her.

That relationship will have a special place because we were engaged and really loved it other. But it's in the past. I have to move on.

It's ok to have memories. Its on to miss them. But life is short, and you need to enjoy. It's time to take the lessons to a new relationship.

You have to also love yourself. Hey, I know eye roll and I know I have problems with that too. And like you wishing for a friend or normal life. I just had my heart broken again. But life is what you make it. So we can't give up right?

If you need to talk to another introvert, who feels life isn't normal hit me up.

I am sorry to hear you are going through this. Unfortunately there is no time frame on getting over your ex. You are not the only person to feel this way, some people never get over them. You do have to move on though. I don't know the details, but you have to accept that they are gone and accept your life now which can be hard but you are stuck. Message me if you like, I am here.