Breakups & Divorce Support Group
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Man this was a rough week. I took the kids to Reno to see their dad, and we stayed at his sisters. The first day was ok, when the kids saw their dad, there was drama. He hurt the oldest, but she full stood up for herself. I was so proud of her! Then the next day, his sister went off on me, in front of the kids. She told me that if I didn't have a "conversation" with her, then she was done with me and the kids. I got our stuff and we left. As we were walking away she yelled at the kids to thank me, because they lost their dad, and now they've lost their family. After that, we saw their dad again, and we even had dinner with his "friend". The next morning we drove home. After getting home, I took the signed papers to the lawyers. He said it should be finalized by the end of the month.
Because of the stress, my oldest and I got into a fight,me here I yelled at her. I even slapped her. That was Tuesday, and we're only just starting to get back to normal. It's hard, because I'm working 6 days a week, and I'm simply exhausted. Tears seem to flow so easily this week, when before the trip, I rarely cried.
I wish I could make it through a single hour without crying. I wish I wasn't exhausted. I just wish I would feel better.
Because of the stress, my oldest and I got into a fight,me here I yelled at her. I even slapped her. That was Tuesday, and we're only just starting to get back to normal. It's hard, because I'm working 6 days a week, and I'm simply exhausted. Tears seem to flow so easily this week, when before the trip, I rarely cried.
I wish I could make it through a single hour without crying. I wish I wasn't exhausted. I just wish I would feel better.
Chris maybe you're through the worst of it. You children and you are already deep in the process of adjustment. I'm betting you feel a little empowered by bringing the paperwork to the lawyers. Try to forgive yourself and the kids for a few bad moments. Strive toward all good moments.
Stay strong.
Forgive me for saying so, but I think your sister in law was completely inappropriate, especially in front of the kids.
You will have peace and happiness again. I know how stressful this is, so please take care of yourself!
I am sorry you had to go through this.
Try your best to separate your emotions from all those problems to when you are with your children. I know it is hard to do but it is a must for our kids.
Try to keep them from toxic people and toxic behavior. They deserve better than those comments from their aunt.
Good Luck with everything and many blessings.
All you can do is wade through this. Soon, things l be settled with the Divorce. You and your daughter will mend and hopefully become stronger through it. And work, well, will always be exhausting. :)
Hang in there my friend. You will make it through.
I also scheduled an appointment with my doctor to talk about antidepressants. I just can't stand feeling like this. I work for the school district, and I'm so looking forward to June 1st, when I go to only working 1 job at a time