Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hi folks, I have been reading some of the post and feel both angry at my situation, but supported because I know I am not the only one going through it. First off I want to thank everyone for posting and sharing your pain. It's nice to know I am not the only one with all of the emotions that I am going through.
Married 13 years, currently working together with my wife to separate and eventually divorce. I am relying on God, friends and family right now for advice and support, all of whom are doing an amazing job.
What I wanted to talk about is the loss of companionship that I fear the most. I have been a devoted husband since I got married and a devoted dad since my son (10 years old now). What I have come to realize is that while it is extremely painful to lose my wife, I am just wired to have a companion and to take care of that companion. I don't want another relationship right now, but I am wondering how other are dealing with these feelings. I have accepted that she thinks the grass is greener on the other side, but I'm worried about the companionship.
Thanks,
Married 13 years, currently working together with my wife to separate and eventually divorce. I am relying on God, friends and family right now for advice and support, all of whom are doing an amazing job.
What I wanted to talk about is the loss of companionship that I fear the most. I have been a devoted husband since I got married and a devoted dad since my son (10 years old now). What I have come to realize is that while it is extremely painful to lose my wife, I am just wired to have a companion and to take care of that companion. I don't want another relationship right now, but I am wondering how other are dealing with these feelings. I have accepted that she thinks the grass is greener on the other side, but I'm worried about the companionship.
Thanks,
Anyway, at first, its going to be a struggle not only because of how you like to be, but how you have been for all this time. Breaking routine is difficult even when you are trying. All you can really do is acknowledge those time, deal with the emotions you are going through cus you'll need to retrain your brain to doing less but more about taking care of yourself and needs of your son.
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