Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I have been thinking alot about the things that are meant to be and the things that are not. I wonder when I see couples together what they have individually from an emotional standpoint that I do not and wonder if I am truely broken and if I am salvageable.
If Ive gone thru the things that I have just to be alone as I was always intended to be. Wouldnt it be nice to know from birth that you weren't even suppose to be coupled with anyone. Imagine how much suffering it would save us all and how much more energy we could have and less sadness. It would just be a knowing, a understanding. I have no bitterness is my heart, but I believe my heart has been broken since the day I was born.
I agree that would've been nice, but never risking anything would make life boring in a sense. One would never experience happiness if you don't take a risk every now and then.
Hope you feel better soon.
the choice is to live & risk, maybe knowing joy and intense sadness
or to not risk, no chance of intense sadness, well that is bullshit sadness will still find that person , the sadness will be self-inflicted