Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
So it has been almost two months since I let him back into my life, after he had sex with someone else in less than 2 weeks. I knew in my heart that spoke nothing to how he was supposed to love me. Well since then he has quit his job b/c in a rage with me he transferred and hated it. Which is so immature and selfish because now I have all the bills as I have before. Things have not changed he still has an attitude cusses me out, doesn't really like my mom. Now that tax time is approaching he treats it as splurge time to go shopping with half of the tax money(from our son) and he hasn't even worked half he year. How used I am feeling. Just looking for a little feedback from my DS family. Does anyone know of a court order to dictate the carrying of a minor dependant. I feel so dumb because now he is about to be broke and spending all of this tax money which he only worked three months out of the year. What to do? What have I done? I should've keep walking and never looked back what now?
Also contact your local women's shelter immediately. They should be able to help you create a SAFE plan to leave as well as refer to you a therapist who specializes in recovery from abuse. Many shelters offer free weekly group sessions.
After you have all your legal ducks in a row and a SAFE plan to leave, then walk away and never look back. It's never too late to leave.
Whatever you do, do NOT tell him (or anyone who might tell him) what you're planning. Otherwise, he WILL do everything he can to keep you sucked in. He could go either way - lovey dovey or enraged. Either way its abuse and not love.
~healing hugs~