Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Today i just kept reflecting back on my last conversation with my husband, right before i walked out of my home of the past 21 years i asked him once more, "are you sure this is what you want, he said yes, i said, "you want me totally out of your life for good, his response was "i have never said i wanted you out of my life totally". I said you want a divorce, he said yes. Ok i dont understand what he meant by I never said i wanted you totally out of my life. at that point i was losing it in front of him so i got in my car and drove off with what was the last of all my personal belongings. What is your alls opinion on this.
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Is thinking. He wants a divorce, end of discussion
In my book. See a lawyer and self protect. Go no
contact As much as possible.
My ex and i have nothing to discuss, its done and
Over. During the divorce its all about the financials
And the children, he is not your friend.
I have a very strong suspicion you will find out after
The divorce the whys??? HUGS
I'd bet my bottom dollar on it.
And you asking these questions is degrading and pointless.
He doesn't want you out of his life forever. How sweet. He just wants you out of YOUR home so he can have his affair.
I'd have his behind in court and I'd be giving him terms, not asking, but that's just me.
Because I was burned once. It won't happen again. A lot wiser
because he wanted to start his whole new Life
Without me there also his business was on the
same property.
I told him no dating he is a married man until
The divorce. He left in a big huff. He even took
Me to financial mediation trying to get me out.
Then when that failed he played hard ball with
The business checking account money.
I stayed until the decree was signed then i Moved
out, he had to live with his mother and Then on the
sly with his GF. They were very discreet and clever.
He wanted to do the divorce ourselves and save money
I said forget it. He filed the next day and fought Me Every
inch of the way. That was my thanks after 30 years, HUGS