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Recently single - not liking it

Guil207
Guil207

Hello, I heve recently become single.  My live-in girlfriend of about 7 years left me.  It went from I love you every day to I'm moving out.  Lots to say, for example she's still here while looking for her own place.  Kids involved on both sides but not ours together.  SO stressed and losing sleep, appetite.  Just want to talk with someone, maybe in similar situation.  Also, 1 1/2 weeks after she broke up with me, found out she is seeing somebody else already.

confusedjade
confusedjade
It will just be a re-bound thing and probably won't last. I can't imagine how you feel.. my husband moved out yesterday(not seeing anyone, that I know of) its an awful time but I know things will get easier. Feel free to message me if you ever need someone to rant to :-)
Guil207
Guil207
Hello, when she broke up with me we had not really talked about it. She and I were in the dining room and she called my son in and she told him we broke up. That is how I found out. Then she said she was going away for the weekend for "me time." When she got back one of my kids gave her attitude about something. Then m,y kids were arguing about something and when she stopped that, they both mumbled something under their breath. That's when she came in and said "I'm out of here in 30 days." Then about a week and 1/2 later through a conversation with her she said "I'm seeing someone." OMG the pain.
I have been talking to counselors over the phone frequently since this. It helps. There is so much stress in my life because of this. It was "I love you" every day then this. Besides that I can't help picture her doing things in this other persons bedroom that we did.
I told her I won't kick her out because she has a kid but I did say she needs to honor the 30 day thing. I have so much pain, anxiety, sadness, etc. Any thoughts?
Guil207
Guil207
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