Breakups & Divorce Support Group

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diemjs
diemjs
Lets say, you work in a grocery store. Lets say, the day you are off, your stbx, his gf and your kids go into that grocery store.

Then, lets say, you go into the store to buy some milk. Your co-workers aproach you and tell you what they saw the day you werent working. THEM!

How would you feel? What would you do?

I over-reacted. This, I know.

I dont want to hear from MY co-workers about THEM!

Know what I mean?

How about you?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I wouldnt want to know either unless the information was in some way important. It's got to hurt on some level
deleted_user
deleted_user
It would piss me off. Surely there are other grocery stores they could shop at! My husband manages a grocery store and I make a point to not go in ANY of the chain's stores just so people won't be gossiping about me to him.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Ouch, that sucks, and I don't think you over-reacted.
deleted_user
deleted_user
no u did not over react and they should shop somewhere else
MsBlank1
MsBlank1
(((((hugs)))) I know how this feels.My MIL use to go around saying bad things about me to my friends when she wasn't saying things to me.My mom would tell me what she was saying.Finally I just told my mom that I know she is saying things,but you telling me just adds fuel to the fire...
Could you tell the workers in the store to just keep it to themselves so you can heal.Now if THEY come into the store when you are working...run them over with a loaded shopping cart!!!!