Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband moved out and asked for a divorce, he has been out of the house for about 2 weeks now he wants to move back. He says he can't imagine living without me but at the same time is confused and not sure of what he wants. He wants us to take it slow and try to work things out with no promises. It's so confusing and heartbreaking. 2 weeks before he was ready to move on and now he is ready for a second chance. What should I do? I don't want to have this conversation again in 2-3 months.
Hugs to you!
But in the end,you have to decide. I am always for 2nd chances.
(It only takes ONE to split up, but it takes TWO to make a couple)
Figure out what you want, ask why your partner split and why they want to come back.
Dont settle for charm, the info has to make common sense.
TRY? along with respect, honesty and work.
Hoilidays can be tough on us troubled couples, sometimes guys have not a clue of what life is really about..
Even if you want to give him another chance, I would consider NOT letting him move back in until the two of you have had some counseling and tried to work out some of the issues that got you both here in the first place.
All the best to you. I hope it works out the way you want. (((HUGS)))