Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Do you ever find something like a quote or a song that pulls out of of the moment and maybe gives you hope. Usually under sad and depression times I know i turn to the songs that i can cry to, but then I look for things that might help me feel better.. Here is what i found yesterday and its been stuck in my head since.
"Hold On"
I know this pain
Why do lock yourself up in these chains?
No one can change your life except for you
Don't ever let anyone step all over you
Just open your heart and your mind
Is it really fair to feel this way inside?
[Chorus:]
Some day somebody's gonna make you want to
Turn around and say goodbye
Until then baby are you going to let them
Hold you down and make you cry
Don't you know?
Don't you know things can change
Things'll go your way
If you hold on for one more day
Can you hold on for one more day
Things'll go your way
Hold on for one more day
***What are some that help you?
"Hold On"
I know this pain
Why do lock yourself up in these chains?
No one can change your life except for you
Don't ever let anyone step all over you
Just open your heart and your mind
Is it really fair to feel this way inside?
[Chorus:]
Some day somebody's gonna make you want to
Turn around and say goodbye
Until then baby are you going to let them
Hold you down and make you cry
Don't you know?
Don't you know things can change
Things'll go your way
If you hold on for one more day
Can you hold on for one more day
Things'll go your way
Hold on for one more day
***What are some that help you?
Keisha Cole- Trust and Believe
Sara Evans- A Little Bit Stronger
The Wreckers- Leave the Pieces when you Go
Cooper- This Year
I have so many inspirational quotes that I like that I started a quote journal. Here is one that I happen to have sitting next to me:
"You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won't happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, " I don't care how hard this is. I don't care how disappointed I am. I'm not going to let this get the best of me. I'm moving on with my life."
Here are just a few quotes I've pinned during this trying, sad time:
1. Every heartache will fade away....just like every storm runs out of rain.
2. Do not be afraid to walk the path that you must go just because you cannot see the end. The path becomes clearer as you continue to go.
3. One of the happiest moments in life is when you find the courage to let go of what you can't change.
4. When you've done everything you can do, that's when God will step in and do what you can't do.
5. Once you realize you deserve better, letting go will be the best decision ever.
6. New beginnings are often disguised as painful endings.
7. I'm tired of trying to hold things together that cannot be held. Trying to control what cannot be controlled. I am tired of denying myself what I want for fear of breaking things I cannot fix. They will break no matter what we do.
8. I was set free, because my greatest fear had already been realized, and I was still alive....and so rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life!
9. You've got a broken heart, not a broken life. You've got a broken dream, not a broken future.
10. The Lord is close to the broken hearted, Psalms 34:18
Oh dear, I could literally go on and on...........hugs to you all!
"People will let you down - that is life
But people will also lift you up, love you, save you, embrace you, teach you and guide you. Welcome to life!"
I have such a difficult time seeing the bigger picture because I get so consumed with the grief. But, I have been let down so much by my husband over the past 14 years with this being the final and biggest letdown that I forget that there is a whole wide world out there with caring, loving and amazing people. I just need to stop fighting for and grieving over this toxic relationship so I can focus on nurturing and finding the positive ones.
The day after my divorce papers were served a friend of mine sent me flowers...don't remember a thing about the flowers but the card had the following quote:
Promise me you'll always remember: You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
And from my bosses own words:
" those who love you way our number the ONE that doesn't"
I am having all these quotes made into prints that will hang in my new home office when I move :)