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NewAgain's skanky hoe reminded me of something that happened to me years ago, I was either still in High School or just graduated... not positive. Anyway, I was parked in a parking lot waiting to meet a buddy of mine. Some girl pulled in and parked beside me, she struck up a conversation. I thought it was a bit forward of her, but didn't put too much thought into it. We talked for maybe 20-30 minutes... my buddy was running late.
Anyway, I felt I did nothing besides carry on the conversation to be courteous. Didn't even get her name. Later on that evening my bud and I had our girlfriends with us... the four of us were in my car. Just finished watching a movie at the theater and were pulling out of the parking spot.
Apparently, mystery girl from earlier and stalked out my car and was waiting for us. She pulled along side and started screaming at me for cheating on her and etc... she just went absolutely nuts. I was so caught off guard I didn't know what else to do besides drive off.
Fortunately my GF of the time was understanding of the situation and trusted me... that end of the deal blew over before it started...but, the gal continued to give me dirty looks for several months after, one time she nearly ran me over when I was walking across the street... then finally I think she moved. Disappeared to me anyway. Somewhere in the mix I learned that she was married, not even separated... just nuts.
That incident just always stuck in my head... about what misfires are happening in someones head to cause that sort of delusion.
So, NewAgain... you may want to step kindly around your new friend.
Anyway, I felt I did nothing besides carry on the conversation to be courteous. Didn't even get her name. Later on that evening my bud and I had our girlfriends with us... the four of us were in my car. Just finished watching a movie at the theater and were pulling out of the parking spot.
Apparently, mystery girl from earlier and stalked out my car and was waiting for us. She pulled along side and started screaming at me for cheating on her and etc... she just went absolutely nuts. I was so caught off guard I didn't know what else to do besides drive off.
Fortunately my GF of the time was understanding of the situation and trusted me... that end of the deal blew over before it started...but, the gal continued to give me dirty looks for several months after, one time she nearly ran me over when I was walking across the street... then finally I think she moved. Disappeared to me anyway. Somewhere in the mix I learned that she was married, not even separated... just nuts.
That incident just always stuck in my head... about what misfires are happening in someones head to cause that sort of delusion.
So, NewAgain... you may want to step kindly around your new friend.
Ya know, been thinking now if old Gary maybe planted some stuff in her head. Who knows. These are adults however and they need to stop dragging other into their sick melodrama. I'm actually afraid now to walk my dog.
Next thing I hear she had told someone I asked her out of a date. We were in passing cars on the road when I waved.
Few years back my wife and I went out to eat, she ended up being our waitress. I felt awkward, my wife thought it was funny.
There's some weirdos out there.
Maybe that's your mission in life!