Sending you a hug dont know anything
About going to a hospital for a breakup.

If you have a therapist talk about these
subjects. Thats what i do, i love to talk
To her about certain subjects because
She is trained and others are not.

Hugs

Mirandac

You can certainly use someone to talk to so finding a counselor not so much a therapist may be beneficial for you.

Joining this support group helps as well.

Welcome to the group

Hi aka, I just read your profile. You said that you don't have much sympathy, that you're a just get to the point type of person. If this is true, then I think you're missing the journey that you MUST take to get to that "point". You can't just wish pain away, or simply want to be better, or for someone at a hospital to just fix things. Emotional pain is very much like physical pain in that it'll be there forever, and will get worse, until you do something about it. I believe you have to talk about your emotions, just as you might have to do physical therapy for an injury. You have to figure yourself out. It's a terribly difficult journey, and sometimes just starting is the hardest part.

You also said something about believing that most people don't understand real life struggles, victories, or know how to be real friends. I have to respectfully wholeheartedly disagree. We do not know what's inside people's hearts. My neighbor may seem to have a beautiful home, plenty of $, awesome kids, a loving husband. But there is sadness in my neighbor's life, as there is in everyone's life. Struggles, disappointments, issues swept under the rug. Please don't feel that you are alone in your hurting. We're all human, so we all struggle. Some just hide it better than others.

If you can open up to support from people (this board is a good place to start), you may find yourself coming to better terms with your pain, and realizing their are plenty of avenues to healing. Please be kind to yourself.